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About Me

How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a Personal Lifestyle Consultant (LifeStylist) who provides sessions for Creating your Life Desires!

I am a Personal Lifestyle Consultant for professionals who want  comfort and confidence when they get home as they are in the office and want to create What and Who You Truly Desire . 

To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and resulting “compelling story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching people like you on exactly how to create their life's through a 'Feeling it For Real' system using your very Own Imagination

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That defining moment in my life happened in January 2016, November 2016 and again in March of 2017. 

I've always been a researcher, organizer and strategist. It served me well as an electronics technician for 20 years. I learned I had a gift to look at any sort of chaos and fix it immediately.

Later, running a pet sitting business, my clients would turn to me not just to take great care of their animals, but to help them organize their own chaos. As busy professionals, they give their all to their work - often at the expense of being able to come home to a place they can relax.

Growing up as a kid, I always wanted to come home to a relaxing, peaceful environment. But it was never meant to be. As a child born to a parent who suffered from chronic depression, I grew up early. I didn't know it at the time, whenever society told me to go to the left, I went to the right - or whatever was opposite! I was a fighter from the get-go and fought for my family, for their health and for mine too. I started working at an early age and fought to make money. I spent my life chasing a career and became very successful.

Looking back now, I know I was trying to outrun the depression that was trying to eat my family alive. 

In January of 2016, my older brother, my favorite brother, couldn't outrun the depression anymore. He was brilliant - and a genius - and couldn't find an answer to his problems, either physically or mentally. Years of medication to treat his IBS and depression didn't help him and he just couldn't take it anymore. I lost my Mom later in November of 2016 and my younger brother in March 2017. In an instant, I was faced with a choice. Either I would join my older brother - and so many others in my family who had succumbed to this debilitating depression - or I would choose to LIVE.

I had been swimming against the tide of depression all my life - alternating between medications and alternative medicine to keep things humming in my life… I had always teeter-tottered in regards to life as a result of the depression and many other life changing events. I was sexually and verbally abused by others, but I did my own physical abuse with food, drugs and self-hatred for many years, which added to my depression. My whole life I embraced the concept of thinking that, I was a mistake and lived that way, accordingly, until this time when I realized that I could not teeter-totter anymore and needed to make a definite decision one way or the other.

I made the decision to choose to LIVE. I hungered for answers being the analyzer that I am, and it had always been my monumental hurdle to find My Self and a reason for my existence. I researched and studied health, wellness and happiness and all forms of natural healing and health. I became inspired to go back to school and enrolled at the Institute of Integrative Nutrition to be a Holistic Health Coach and finally create what my very deep and true desires were and that was a passion for health, healing and well being. I had ultimately been waiting my whole life for this and now it was happening.

My life started to change first, by reiterating my lifelong dream of working in alternative health coaching and adding this to my Breakthrough to Self Love Program. I had always dreamed of this, but now I was making it happen. This learning curve created enough space surrounding me to explore, define and redefine my New Story of Me.

As I focused on my primary and secondary foods and implementing some small steps and actions to increase the areas in my life that I identified as needing some work, my life slowly but steadily changed. My depression has not been as deep, dark and hellish as it had been for many many previous years. I no longer was obsessed with the idea of Not Living and these thoughts that were an every minute of every hour of every day event, decreased dramatically. I have come out of the darkness of my Old Self, greeted these parts, gave them notice and been able to move through them, quite literally speaking through a variety of alternative modalities, such as EFT, Reiki, Energy Healing, Chelation Therapy, Kinesiology many forms of Meditation, Hypnosis and Yoga to name a few.

I came out of all of this being intuitive, focused and highly creative in working with others to create harmony at home just like they have at work so they have a more fully balanced lifestyle.

Dealing with the loss of my mother and younger brother really rocked my world, but I made the decision to keep going because now I had a Purpose that had always been buried deep inside of me.

I cleaned up my past and had a single minded focus and started teaching well-paid women executives how they can do the same: I watched their confidence Go Through The Roof too! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other well-paid professionals breakthrough their inner blocks, find their sweet spot and uplevel their personal lives to have the have the FREEDOM to create the life, home and family they’ve always dreamed of.

Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups: I lived my dream of beginning to create an all-in-one healing center that helps people with everything from food shopping to fertility; making plans to travel to Hawaii and enjoy health retreats all while I work with clients I love; and I have created "Breakthrough to Self Love" a 90 Day System of 12 important inner and outer life satisfaction steps every highly paid professional needs to apply to get out of their own way and live the personal lifestyle they dream of in record time.

Who are your clients?

I work with people just like you who are holistic practitioners, energy workers, sales professionals and women entrepreneurs who are really good at what they do. However, they have never been taught exactly how to create harmony and balance in their homes or personal life's as they have at work, so they can have the Freedom to create the life, home and family they've always imagined and dreamed of.

Professional Managers

Coaches

Consultants

Holistic Practitioners

Authors

Reiki Masters

Emotional Freedom Technique Practitioners

Health & Wellness Consultants

Speakers

Massage Therapists

Real Estate Agents

Creative Spiritual Entrepreneurs

Sales Professionals

What makes you different from other “Personal Lifestyle Consultant”?

Although we will occasionally touch upon nutrition and other “healthy coach-y” things, you have me as a confidence and organizer expert and consultant. I work on the inner and outer principles for successfully looking at your home environment and your personal life results from an organic and spiritual perspective. What that means to you is that you get a wise-sage-meets-kick-butt authentic lifestyle consultant that helps you kick down those inner blocks in order for you to create the dream life you have only imagined. I’m also spiritual and I don’t pretend to hide it either. Because I’m not delicate, you’ll always get a straight to the point quick and honest response from me.

I’m concerned with how to get your sweet spot of life FAST – to help you STOP wasting time and leaking your energy and your power where it doesn’t belong and get you focused on creating your family or lifestyle sooner. I don’t beat around bushes or waste time. You may not like what I have to tell you – but you can be sure I will always tell you the truth. The truth about what’s standing in the way of your success and how to get rid of it FAST so you can start getting results in record time (and I throw in a healthy dose of humor and inspiration, which always helps!).

What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?

The “Breakthrough to Self Love" workshops, products and programs were created for people who are absolutely excited and dead serious about breaking out of their rut, breaking through resistance, making more time and creating the life, home and ultimately, the family that you've always dreamed of and ending what I call “the spinning anxiety syndrome” – it means not running around all day long, beating yourself up anymore saying: “I should be doing WAY better than this in my home and family life by now!” I have created a Program of 12 important inner and outer satisfaction steps that you need to apply so you can put systems in place within a few months (sometimes weeks!), which will eventually lead you to gaining more confidence, comfort, and finally creating the lifestyle of your dreams. That’s what I call FREEDOM.

Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to taking their success at work and bringing it home no matter what and who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to get home and life style they have dreamed of. My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to bring comfort and confidence into your home life. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal: confidence, comfort and peace of mind at home while creating the family of your dreams, consistently and in record time.

For what type of professionals are your programs NOT going to work?

Please know I’m very selective in who I work with and I cherry-pick my clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my programs and won’t get the results for which they would have signed up for. (It wouldn’t be fair to them.) “Breakthrough to Self Love" Program is NOT for those who have no desire to take some drastic action steps right away. It’s been my experience that people in life crisis do not trust the recommendations I give them and do not do the work (probably because they spend so much time thinking about the mess and stress when they go home and really not wanting to go there to face it all after a hard day's work) If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OK. We’ve all been in times of life crisis at one point or another.

Do yourself (3) favors:

(1) Start to  pay attention to how your mind is creating your current and present home and personal life and if necessary, start to de-clutter just one small area of your home and imagine what you really want to see and feel while you are home, and then call me. This will take the edge off and provide a little more peace of mind. Mostly, it will de-clutter your mind enough to focus on your “Breakthrough to Break-Free" flow assignments and the BIG picture. Once you start seeing a clearer path into your home  and personal life style of mindsets regularly as a result of our work, you can then start making plans for the family and personal life you have envisioned as a result of Freeing up your Home and Mind Space.

(2) Sign up for the free “Feeling it For Real" Success Pack by email (Click here to subscribe). The free information will get you started towards your goals until you’re ready to work with me one-on-one.

(3) Make a point to read the “Feeling it For Real” weekly tip in my ezine. The tips are sent over week and will give you LOTS to think about. (Up and coming)

Doing at least two of the three things will really help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, call me and we’ll get you started. (I’m in no rush and will be here when you need me). Another type of personalities I won’t work with (without exception) are the whiner or the chronic skeptic, as well as individuals who consistently make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not call and I hope you understand why. We’ll probably just not work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair?

What exactly is “Breakthrough to Self Love"™ Program & what does it include?

Skyrocketing your confidence, comfort and balance begins with understanding your true value, where your power really comes from, how to manifest what you want (including more harmony), creating powerful intentions that get you results as well as the outer pieces to powerfully create your loving home style. Here’s what the System gets you to do:

1.Get a Clear Picture (Quite literally!)

Really look at what kind of life you are currently creating at home and in your personal life. “What you will see is the results of your current mindset!” It is just a starting point. You will need to see what’s real and feel that! Create either a video or a picture of your current home environment. Start at one room at a time and eventually get to your food pantry.

2. Set Your Intentions (Big Vision & Goals)

We examine where you are in your home and personal LifeStyle and get CRYSTAL clear about your NEW intentions, what you want to experience in your personal home-life. Before you can manifest what you want you have to KNOW what you DON’T want. You’ll learn the difference between setting goals and intentions, the biggest mistakes professionals make when trying to apply the law of attraction to their home-life and pave the way to create the family and lifestyle you’ve only dreamed of in your MIND!.

3. Release Your Inner Resistance (Uplevel & Upgrade Your Beliefs)

Mostly you might already know what you need to be doing but yet are still struggling in procrastination, feeling stuck and spinning in circles. You’ll be learning proven techniques for breaking through your inner resistance, self doubt, fear, anxiety and all of that “stuff” that keep you playing small so that you can begin taking “Your Power Back” action steps in your household.

4. Create Your Ideal LifeStyle (Rebooting Your Hard Drive)

Together we’ll find out exactly how you want to feel at home and in your personal life, what you want to see, how you want to feel, what would give you comfort, balance and harmony. Get clear on the causes of stress when you come home, how to create flow and what daily simple steps you need to take to immediately see results! Installing new beliefs and thoughts that are in alignment with your NOW vision of a healthy home and personal life. We’ll spend considerable amount of time devising and creating a home and personal lifestyle plan that you will love coming home to and want to be fully present in.

5. Engage Yourself & Implement

Just Do It! We’ll figure out the real you. You’ll learn how to take action steps daily. A specific tailor made plan shaped for you!

6. Single Minded Focus (Action Plan)

What’s your single-minded focus? We’ll look at what you should be focusing on in order to upkeep with your current creations. What actions you need to be taking each day to leverage your time and effectiveness so your home continues to have flow through harmony and balance in order for you to start focusing on creating a family life and keys to stay focused.

7. Mastery of Breaking Through to Self Love

Here I’ll take you step by step through my proven “Breakthrough to Self Love" Program that works like a charm every time. You’ll begin feeling more confident and comfortable because you’ll know exactly what to do daily, weekly and monthly. You’ll start feeling the comfort, balance and have the synchronicity at home, which ultimately gives birth to creating an environment that embraces some new beginnings of life.

8. Celebrate!

We’ll focus a lot of our time celebrating wins and creating the new habit of celebrating what’s being shown to you. What you focus on expands and everything you are learning and experiencing is of your creation. Your comfort and confidence will sky rocket as you consistently produce this energy over and over again! Celebrate what shows up so you can pave the way for even more success!

Congratulations!!! Your confidence and “Breakthrough to Self Love" Program is in place and you’ll never have to worry about coming home and not feeling comfortable in your own home, ever again! In addition to these 8 categories, you will learn hundreds and hundreds of things to help you manage your personal life more effectively, have more fun, get out of your own way and into a more happier and healthier lifestyle. These are the steps of The “Breakthrough to Self Love"™  system that I’ve created after working with solo- and spiritual-preneurs to help them get ahead.

Does this really work?

Yes! The result of our work is an approach to shifting your mindset and your marketing so that with time, and consistency you’ll skyrocket your confidence in your ability to manifest and create a new life at home.

 (See Testimonials)

What results can I expect?

You can expect to:

Gain unshakable confidence in yourself – (a lot of my clients tell me that is worth the investment alone).

Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can take action and start living your passion and on purpose with ease.

Get crystal clear on what kind of life you want to create at home.

Create a home environment that is conducive for creating new life through organization and cleanliness daily steps.

Clarity and insight into the Big picture of your underlying issues at hand.

Have a program in place that is tailor made for you specifically to kick down those inner blocks so you can create in an environment that you love to be in.

Help you breakthrough your limiting beliefs that are holding you back from the success at home you want and deserve.

We’ll go back and discover the actual moments where you made crucial decisions and re-pattern those with beliefs that support your Now vision for your dream home life.

You’ll learn a powerful emotional release technique to help you let go of all your resistance to moving forward and taking action at home.

You’ll have big breakthroughs and Ah Ha moments.

Health benefits, living stress free.

Let go and release trauma in the body.

Anxiety dissipates and peace and calm sets in.

Feel empowered about the future.

Be clear and concise in your communication.

Have more ease and grace in your life.

Watch your best life unfold with ease.

Create deep intimacy and meaning in your personal relationships.

Learn how to see relationships as mirrors and open channels for transformation.

Find out what is holding you back and owning your present reality.

Better time management techniques.

Better meal planning. Attain fuller health and well being.

Get more comfort and confidence while at home.

Achieve greater cleanliness.

Can I contact some of your former clients to see what it’s like to work with you?

Yes, I encourage you to! Please go to the Client Testimonials page and read all of them. See which ones you feel drawn to, either because the person has gotten the results you want to get too, or perhaps because that person is in a similar profession. Then feel free to email or call them and ask what they got from working with me and my programs.

How quickly can I expect results?

That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts. Some clients are ready to go and skyrocket their success in a very short time frame, sometimes even a few weeks while others have a bit more work to do first. It also depends on how far along you are in your home life and that we have a clear picture of your present circumstances.

How can I guarantee myself that I will get more confidence & comfort at home, in record time?

Do all of your homework. Be totally committed to your success. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All my clients who have diligently applied every step of “Breakthrough to Self Love"™ Program have successfully created their dream home life, in much less time than they would have on their own AND have created the family they desire.

Mary, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know you’re the one I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?

Congratulations on making a decision for success! I’m happy to work with you to achieve your home-styling goals… The best way to work with me is my 90-Day “Breakthrough to Self Love" Program. Here’s some of the results you can expect……

Gain unshakable confidence in yourself – (a lot of my clients tell me that is worth the investment alone).

Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can take action and start living your passion and on purpose with ease.

Get crystal clear on what kind of life you want to create at home.

Raise your self esteem and self confidence.

Rewrite your story

Open your heart and expand your true being.

Find your happiness

Create a home environment that is conducive for creating new life through organization and cleanliness daily steps.

Clarity and insight into the Big picture of your underlying issues at hand.

Have a program in place that is tailor made for you specifically to kick down those inner blocks so you can create in an environment that you love to be in.

Help you breakthrough your limiting beliefs that are holding you back from the success at home you want and deserve.

We’ll go back and discover the actual moments where you made crucial decisions and re-pattern those with beliefs that support your Now vision for your dream home life.

You’ll learn a powerful emotional release technique to help you let go of all your resistance to moving forward and taking action at home.

You’ll have big breakthroughs and Ah Ha moments.

Health benefits, living stress free.

Let go and release trauma in the body.

Anxiety dissipates and peace and calm sets in.

Feel empowered about the future.

Be clear and concise in your communication.

Have more ease and grace in your life.

Watch your best life unfold with ease.

Create deep intimacy and meaning in your personal relationships.

Learn how to see relationships as mirrors and open channels for transformation.

Find out what is holding you back and owning your present reality.

Better time management techniques.

Better meal planning. Attain fuller health and well being.

Get more comfort and confidence while at home.

Achieve greater cleanliness.

OK, I’m ready to do this for myself, but I have a couple of additional questions. Can I call you?

Good, sounds like you’re ready to be pulled into your future! Yes, we would love to get on the phone with you.

 Please schedule a call with one of my team members today. CLICK HERE TO SCHEDULE YOUR CALL! I can’t wait to see you succeed and am honored to be the one to help you. Let’s get going!

To Your Love, Expansion & Freedom,

Mary